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Is this what you want to be in the middle of? Judge who they are on the merit of who they are. You camouflaging their issues is only causing you to blend into the background of your own life.
I have been dating a truly kind man for 8 months. We previously knew each other as friends in college 30 years ago and just coincidentally met up possivle. He had been broken up from a 6 year relationship for a few months.
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So it is truly affecting us now goad he knows he cannot go forward emotionally with me right now and he is also clinically depressed Dating and possible ltr down the road it. I love him so much and want to help him. He needs to process this, then stay on his own a bit to get over it.
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Thanks so much for responding. My ex was going through a clinical depression stage and I stuck by him. He eventually used me when he was down and as soon as he was better it was off to new women!
I thought I was giving him all the love he needed through his recovery, but he really just needed a doormat while he planned his next sexual misadventure. If he needs the closure, it is important for him to find it on his own.
And wait until he is better. Women want real sex Meggett needs to cut her losses. How many months has it been? He is still deeply involved with her as evidenced by his being so hurt over her not returning his feelings. Where do you think you fit into that picture? And, you should not be involved in helping him break it off with her so that he can be with you. He should be a man and do it on his own. Think more highly of yourself.
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I texted this am and said I think our conversation today deserves to be in person, if you can spare time later. Seems too congenial given last night you know? What I find so hard to believe is his degree turnaround in his treatment of me lately and knowing I have Dating and possible ltr down the road nothing to deserve it, causes me the exact hurt he is feeling from her. How could he inflict Datingg on me??Hot Naked Men In Tekkop
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You deserve so much more…. I finally realized I do too! This guy has some serious baggage right now. That he knows that and wants to deal with it is to his credit. I always likened it to seeing pig fly. There are pigs out there, just flying around, and around, and around. Give him Dating and possible ltr down the road Daring and space to let him work on himself.
Give him the gift of sorting out his own problems on his own time. Well we are broken up and my heart is just shredded.
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Could he see getting bank with me when he feels happy about himself? There was so much ahd that those memories are suffocating me. I told him it was suspect we break up and same time as she returns Dating and possible ltr down the road for now seems to be cordial with him. She is a narc I know just from the detailed stories so I know SHE wants something other than wanting harmony….
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He truly has never made any real references to our future ie no future faking. So for him to say that to me want the world— and 2 weeks later we break up?? Try to establish what your own limits are. Grace-I know you are right, I need to know when to draw that line for myself.
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Why am I so hesitant to do that…. Stop martyring yourself for this man.
Forget him and his ridiculous issues with the narc ex and go out and find a man who will actually appreciate the wonderful woman he is actually WITH. It has to be related to her— she is seeking something from him and he is prob going to go back and Datng she will Sex Dating Dunbar Kentucky abuse him this time.
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Whatever this guy roqd telling you, it just reeks of BS. I understand how hurt you are and these painful situations can make you obsess on all kinds of stuff and the why, why, why?
Whether he is or not, ask yourself where is his empathy for you? I am not going to tell you what to do, but that you are in the state you are in over this guy speaks volumes. That you are here at BR is great. Start reading, you sound like you might need some boundary work. Take care of yourself first and get out of the crazymaking cycle by focusing on you.
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But I do know that. Mary You have decided that his ex is a narcissist, seemingly based purely on what he has told you. For example; he gave her the house when he left, and got nothing. And he paid no child support, ever.
See what I mean? People lie and tell half truths. You are WAY too invested Dating and possible ltr down the road this mans previous relationship.
If that was the main thing you bonded over analysing her then, poseible definition, once he is over her then your role in his life is finished. Hi mymble, I appreciate your experience— but I have had many interactions with a number of Dating and possible ltr down the road via him they all know each other thru a large business enterprise and the consensus is unanimous- she is a narcissist.
What he chooses to do now is not my concern. Yeah, I was harboring the fantasy that, after a certain age, divorced men are less suspect than someone who has been eternally single.
And that was soothing, orad. I would like to share my life with someone, though. I identify with your lack of interest in dating anyone. I feel the same way. I prefer to be on my own than to make the mistake of investing in the wrong person and wasting my time.